Lately I've been reminded of some very important principles.
First: we CANNOT and WON'T EVER understand things people are privately going through.
So we must not be judgmental, for better OR worse
(none of that "why does she act like that?!" and "his life is perfect" stuff)
And second: Christlike love for our fellow man is the best way to help us avoid the unreasonable judgement of others, AND to be happier.
Since we moved to DC, we've gotten comments from people about how fun and perfect
our lives must be right now.
It definitley HAS been a blast thus far.
And certainly we are making memories that we will hold dear, for forever.
But just to keep things in perspective..... there have also been some very difficult days.
I've been having a bit of an identity crisis, in a lot of ways, since Christian and I got married.
The last few weeks have been especially trying.
You know like when you wake up from a really long nap in the middle of the day, and you are really grouchy and you can't figure out where you are for a good 2 minutes?
Yeah, well basically that's been me for the last 6 months haha!
So I guess all I'm trying to say is everything is NOT sunshine and rainbows over here all the time.
There are days I would like to kick Christian in the shins, and I'm sure he'd like to put on a nice pair of soccer cleats and do the same to me.
And maybe there are other days when I just want to quit life and move to a remote island and be a fisherman for the rest of forever.
But we all have days like that.
And that's just real life, isn't it?
And as I evaluate ours from an insider (mine) and outsider's (yours) perspective, I've come to appreciate the lives of everyone else around me.
Does that make sense?
I'm learning more and more to be patient with other people's "craziness", including my own.
And just as equally to be patient with other people's perceived "perfection".
Because no matter what, no matter who you are and no matter the life you live......
Everyone is struggling.
And everyone needs to feel a little less judged and A LOT more loved.